Pink knows that a lot of people have "strong opinions" on the ways others raise their own children [1], as she's dealt with the aftermath of those opinions [2] on more than one occasion, but the singer shared with Ellen DeGeneres [3] that she honestly doesn't understand why people care so much. On the second episode of The Ellen DeGeneres Show's 15th season, Pink opened up about raising a strong and resilient daughter, breastfeeding her little "hot pocket," Jameson, and where her son got his name from [4].

Watch the video above to hear the pair's parenting comments and to see what Ellen decided would be the perfect gift for Pink's birthday this year (hint: it's not Ellen underwear, but it's pretty damn close).