When you've been through the trenches, you know how the war goes. That's exactly how it is when you've been through a divorce. You've lived to tell the tale. You've earned the battle scars . . . and the right to heal. Sure, divorce is more common today, and people who are married or single can understand the pains and gains of such a massive split, but they don't really understand it the way someone who is divorced does. When you've actually watched your marriage — that former fairy tale you used to dream about — crumble, it's life changing on so many levels. It can feel isolating and lonely, but there truly is a whole tribe of people who know exactly how you feel. Keep reading for 20 relatable things only divorced people will get.