Many people dream about their children's names long before they are married or pregnant. One lady I know had all three of her tot's names picked out years before she met her spouse. She's quick to admit that he was just incidental in the grand scheme of her parenting plan.
But what happens when you have planned your life out so well and then things go awry? What if you and your ex-boyfriend picked "Isabel" as your favorite girl's name? Does that mean it's off limits when you actually have a baby with another partner? Or, would you still keep it on your list?