While most mamas dream of having their hubbies help more around the house and with the kids, USA Today reporter Sharon Jayson says this is easier said than done. The difficulty is due to what she calls "maternal gatekeeping" — mom staying in the role of primary caregiver, which prevents true equality between parents. Do you step back and allow your partner to do what he needs to do or do you encourage him to do what you want him to when it comes to your offspring?