7 Tips For Throwing a Fabulous Coed Baby Shower That Everyone Can Get Behind

Published on 4/8/2016 at 2:33 PM

There's a lot to be excited about while awaiting the arrival of a new bundle of joy, and what better way to celebrate than with both mom and dad? If you decide to kick tradition to the curb and go for a coed baby shower, a few easy things can transform your party from a semi-awkward get-together into a memorable bash. To host an inclusive party that feels welcoming to all guests — no matter their gender — consider these seven simple tips.

Consider Your Wording

Set the tone for an inclusive bash from the start with your invitations. Instead of referring to the get-together as a shower, consider calling it a party or celebration, and remember: it's in honor of mom and dad or the expecting parents.

Keep the Cocktails Flowing

Even if you're having a daytime celebration, get the party started with a well-stocked bar. A fun cocktail will help guests mingle and get to know each other without having to play any icebreaker games.

Don't Dwell on Gender

Even if you're honoring the arrival of baby girl, the party doesn't have to be overflowing with pink and bows. Getting creative with a gender-neutral theme will help everyone to feel included and comfortable at the special celebration.

Have a Hearty Meal

While you don't necessarily need to plan a seated dinner for everyone, light finger foods might not be enough to keep all of your guests well fed (and happy!). If you do decide on bite-size fare, remember that some hungry guests will pop a few extra treats than you might originally account for so be sure to have more than enough to ensure that everyone has something to sample.

Don't Forget About the Favors

Send your guests off with a thoughtful thank you gift that everyone will be excited for. Instead of heart or bottle-shaped trinkets, consider either an edible treat (everyone is happy when they get food!) or a practical, gender-neutral option.

Reconsider Tradition

Just because certain things "are expected" at a baby shower, doesn't mean you have to do it. You know your group of friends best and if you don't think enough people have the patience to watch the parents-to-be open all of their gifts, then opt out. The same thing goes for the games. Make your own rules to customize this party to the guests of honor — and all of their closest friends.

Present Meaningful Presents

During the excited rush to spoil both mom and baby, don't forget to have some treats for the dad-to-be. While he might not deserve quite as much pampering, he is still a special part of the equation and deserves to be showered with some love as well.