Wedding stress doesn't only affect the bride and groom as you can see in this special Ask a Savvy Bride question. Check out the answer below and if you have issues of your own, ask for help in the Ask Savvy group. Dear Savvy, I'm hosting a bridal shower with another bridesmaid in honor of our great friend who is getting married this Summer. She threw me a lovely shower when I was engaged and I'm thrilled to be able to do the same for her. The trouble, however, is that my fellow host is incredibly cheap — I don't think she realized how pricey hosting such an event really is. How can we meet both of our needs; I want this to be a special day for our bride-to-be.
Anything but Cheap Callie
To see the savvy bride's advice, read on.
Savvy bride says: Hosting any kind of party can be really expensive, but you can still have a great event, with all the frills, without breaking the bank. The two most expensive things about hosting a shower are the venue and the food and drinks. To take down the cost, have the party at one of your homes or in a friend or relative's backyard. When hosting at a home, you're able to bring in all your food, drink, decorations, and music without any added surcharge, which usually adds up. If that's not an option, you could host a tea or an afternoon cocktail hour with minimal food — the hours between lunch and dinner are sure to be cheaper at most venues. As for decor, take a trip to your local flower mart in lieu of an expensive florist and get creative with DIY favors. Another thing to consider is sending a free, electronic invite instead of a fancy invitation that also requires postage. At the end of the day, you two need to agree on the type of event you want to host. Be sure to discuss what matters most to each of you and realize that if you're not willing to compromise on your vision, you just might have to take on more financial responsibility. No matter how the event turns out, I'm sure your bride to be will feel honored and blessed that you've gone out of your way for her. Good luck! Ask anything budget-, etiquette-, or planning-related — well, almost anything — by posting your questions in the Ask Savvy group, and I'll find the right expert to help you out. If you are planning a wedding, already happily wed, or still looking for Mr. Right, start sharing your big day with our community. Don't forget to check the wedding content box on your post.