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This Might Be the Best Analogy to Describe Rape You’ll Ever Read

Aug 18 2016 - 4:52pm

There's a dictionary definition of rape, but some people still struggle to comprehend what nonconsensual sex means [1]. Enter Nafisa Ahmed, a Twitter user who posted a flawless analogy to explain what rape means by comparing it to stealing a $5 bill ("You lent my friend $5, so I can borrow it as well"). Check out her tweets ahead; they've gone viral with thousands of retweets and favorites each.

I don't get how rape is so hard to understand for some men. But, if you put it like this, they get it:

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [2]

If you ask me for $5, and I'm too drunk to say yes or no, it's not okay to then go take $5 out of my purse... Just because I didn't say no.

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [3]

If you put a gun to my head to get me to give you $5, you still stole $5. Even if I physically handed you $5.

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [4]

If I let YOU borrow $5, that doesn't give the right for your FRIEND to take $5 out of my purse.
"But you gave him some, why can't I?"

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [5]

If you steal $5 and I can't prove it in court, that does NOT mean you didn't steal $5.

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [6]

Just because I gave you $5 in the past, doesn't mean I have to give you $5 in the future.

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [7]

If you can understand alllllll of that, how do you not understand the concept of rape?

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [8]

Ok, rant over. Times like this are good because it lets me know which men to avoid spend any time with or in the vicinity of.

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [9]

And to think a man said "Well she sat on his lap & went to his house." Okay, if I ask you to hold my purse, does that mean you can take $?

— nafisa ahmed (@thatxxv) August 16, 2016 [10]

This is not the first time someone has related rape to stealing. Another Twitter user, Caitlin Kelly, posted a similar string of tweets in 2014 where she compared conversations about rape to a stolen wallet [11]. While it's unfortunate that Ahmed's and Kelly's comparisons are even necessary, hopefully they'll contribute to the further understanding of rape.


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