Take every moment to appreciate those around you, things happen at the least expected moments. If you love someone, tell them daily. Not expressing your appreciation for someone is like wrapping a gift but never giving it. I also realize that you have to keep up the hotness. No matter how long you've been with someone or how many kids you have, you have to make the effort to stay beautiful EVERY SINGLE DAY-even if just for yourself (put on a little make up, change out of that ugly underwear, put a spritz of perfune on, etc.). It's like making your bed daily, I promise both of these things will make your days start great.