Hello all! I'm Smashingv. Due to fear of possible employers and stalkers finding me online, I have decided not to give my real name here. I also will never post my face. You can call me paranoid if you want, I'm just trying to be safe (as opposed to how I was before - always posting photos online). ANYWAY I'm generally an easy going person, or at least I try to be. I try to let things go because I know people always have their reasons. This does not make me a push over by any means, just a little more forgiving. I love to read and I love to write. As a lover of fashion and style, I have realized that it's all subjective. Even when "fashionistas" throw in the word "aesthetics," it's still personal as each person has their own frame of aesthetics.