So, you're ready to dive into the world of sex toys [1]. But where do you start? While it can feel a bit intimidating scrolling through thousands of options on the internet or walking down the aisles at a store, knowledge is power. First, decide what kind of toy you're looking to try out. For most, that usually involves some type of vibrating toy, whether it targets clitoral stimulation, your G-spot, or internal and external play at the same time. The 10 toys below are tried-and-true, beginner-friendly options that are intuitive to use and ease you into exploring new sensations. Whether you're shopping for a toy to use solo, a gift for a loved one [2], or something to spice up your partner play, these toys will help you feel confident and, most importantly, sexy. Shop our go-to sex toys for beginners below.
The Best Sex Toys For Beginners
- A great way to introduce butt play [2]: Lovehoney Basics Slimline Butt Plug [3] at $13
- To embrace your playful side [3]: Lovehoney Strawberry Sex Toy Clitoral Stimulator [4] at $20
- The vibrator my group chat can't stop talking about [4]: Maude Vibe Mini Vibrator [5] at $32
- The best vibrator for him [5]:Maude Band Vibrating Penis Ring [6]at $52
- To target your G-spot [6]:Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Curved G-Spot Vibrator [7] at $100
- If you want to start slow and gentle [7]: Lelo Sila Cruise Suction Vibrator [8] at $120, originally $199
- To mimic natural sensations [8]: Womanizer Next Liberty [9] at $129
- For multiple types of stimulation [9]: Womanizer Blend Mini Rabbit Vibrator [10] at $129
- This toy can double as decor [10]: LBDO Rush Clitoral Stimulator [11] at $200
- A smart vibrator that tracks your orgasms [11]: Lioness Smart Vibrator [12] at $229
Lovehoney Basics Slimline Butt Plug [13] ($13)
Looking to incorporate some bum fun into your sex life? This butt plug has over 1,800 positive customer reviews, many of which describe the butt plug as a great starter toy for beginners. Thanks to its slim design, this toy offers a less intimidating approach to anal play. Pair it with a generous amount of a water-cased lube for maximum comfort.
Lovehoney Strawberry Sex Toy Clitoral Stimulator [14] ($20)
Shopping for sex toys for the first time can be a little overwhelming, but this playful toy makes it feel a little less serious. It's hard not to smile at this cutesy clitoral stimulator that looks like a perfectly ripe strawberry. It's waterproof, has a 60-minute battery life, and up to 10 speeds for a truly customizable experience.
Maude Vibe Mini Vibrator [15] ($32)
In my experience, the best sex toy recommendations come from the devices your friends can't wait to tell you about. My friend group has always raved about all things Maude — especially the Vibe Mini. Small but powerful, this compact bullet is the perfect introduction to the world of vibrators. It is very discrete, comes with five different settings, and can be used solo or with a partner.
Maude Band Vibrating Penis Ring [16] ($52)
Technically, Maude classifies this toy as a penis ring, but they note it can be used in more ways than one, whether for solo play or with a partner. What I especially love is that it's beginner friendly, yet satisfying for more experienced users — and the designs are both subtle and aesthetically pleasing.
Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Curved G-Spot Vibrator [17] ($100)
This toy is designed to focus on the G-spot, also known as the most nerve-rich part of the vagina. Its curved design makes the tool feel natural to reach just the right spot. With eight vibration settings and 12 intensity levels, you'll have the freedom to explore all different forms of internal stimulation.
Lelo Sila Cruise Suction Vibrator [18] ($120, originally $199)
People praise this toy because it's not overwhelming to use, especially for those just starting out with vibrators. Focusing solely on clitoral stimulation, it uses gentle waves of vibration, allowing you to seamlessly ease into the sensation. Bonus points for the extra-soft silicone casing that feels gentle in your hand.
Womanizer Next Liberty [19] ($129)
If you're looking for toys that go beyond your basic vibration, this new compact 3D air clitoral stimulator may be for you. Its most notable feature is the new technology meant to mimic the natural sensations felt during oral sex. With eight different levels, you can work your way up to your desired intensity.
Womanizer Blend Mini Rabbit Vibrator [20] ($129)
Instead of focusing solely on one area, rabbit vibrators were created to provide internal and external stimulation at the same time. The brand says this design is beginner friendly because it's intuitive to use and only requires one hand.
LBDO Rush Clitoral Stimulator [21] ($200)
Dive right into the luxury end of sex toys. Not only does this device have a sleek, sculptural design, it comes with a glass base for storage, making it double as sexy decor. With up to nine intensity levels and air pulse waves, there are endless ways to experiment and play.
Lioness Smart Vibrator [22] ($229)
This new sex toy was made for people who love tracking their step count and biomarkers. Meet the Lioness Smart Vibrator, the first-of-its-kind smart vibrator. It tracks your orgasm via AI, precision sensors, and biofeedback. (Think of it like a Fitbit for your sex life.) A Popsugar contributor tested it out and writes about her experience in this Lioness Smart Vibrator review [23].
Editor Quote: "For starters, I love that my experiences with Lioness have been both pleasurable and informative. Of course, the rumbly sensations feel great, but it's an added bonus that after masturbating (and cleaning the sex toy, of course) I could sync my session and literally re-watch my entire experience through a colorful graph with little spikes that represented the gradual intensity of my arousal and circles that represented pelvic contractions when orgasming." — Tatyannah King, PS contributor
Adelaide Giesey [24] (she/her) is a shopping writer at Popsugar. With over seven years of industry experience, she is an expert in all things beauty and enjoys writing across fashion and lifestyle categories. Prior to PS, she helped shape the beauty verticals at Byrdie, Coveteur, and InStyle.