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Surviving the Cost of Wedding Season

Surviving a Pricey Wedding Season, Part I

Memorial Day weekend suggests that Summer is just around the corner and is also the unofficial kickoff to an eventful wedding season. I've suggested plenty of budgeting tips for brides to be, but this edition is all about budgeting for your friends' big days. Looking ahead at the rest of 2008 has got me slightly stressed because of the many bachelorette parties and weddings that I'll be attending, and every event will require plane tickets, hotel stays, new apparel, and gifts. I know through good planning I'll be able to enjoy my Summer of witnessing wedding love and be the best bridesmaid and guest possible.

First and foremost, try and take the bitter out of the equation. Yes, weddings can be insanely expensive as a bridesmaid or guest, and I know that costs add up. But don't make your friends feel badly for all deciding to get married at the same time — it isn't a plot against you or your bank account. Like any relationship, friendships involve give and take, and your newlywed friends will be there when it's your turn or have been there for you already. Your friends will sense your bitterness and will prove that bitterness goes both ways. This is a time to make good memories, not to be talking behind each other's backs about so and so's ridiculously expensive tastes.

That doesn't mean that you should let the bride kick you around and be insensitive to her friends or unrealistic about her needs and wants. Some brides are highly demanding, but if you go into the situation with a good attitude, you're more likely to win her over with some of your lower-cost suggestions. Whether you're in the bridal party or you're a guest at the wedding, the bride-to-be has included you because you're her friend, and it's not part of some evil plot to make you go broke. Keep that in mind when the bitter-bug starts creeping.

Stay tuned for some of my tips for surviving a busy wedding season, and check out all our wedding coverage at IDoSugar.

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MindayH MindayH 9 years
Um...tell me about it. Wedding season already started for me in January though
KDwxgirl KDwxgirl 9 years
You think being a guest or a bridesmaid is expensive -- try being the bride. They do look young, but I'm 25 and I look like I'm about 16... as a result, when strangers hear I'm engaged, they feel free to tell me that I am waaaay too young to get married and have I even finished high school yet?
bigestivediscuit bigestivediscuit 9 years
hehe maybe it's a prom photo :)
j2e1n9 j2e1n9 9 years
The girls in that picture look way too young to be married or have a friend their age who is getting married. They look 16! :P
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