We moved into our home two years ago. We started renovating about one year ago. When my son was diagnosed with autism, the behaviorist gave us a few firm suggestions to consider. One of those suggestions was to give him his own room. We have a four-bedroom home, but one of the bedrooms was my office. I work from home and, with three kids, I need my own space to work — or risk getting fired.
When we decided to rip the floors out to put in tile, I hesitantly decided to give my office up for my son. So far, it was the best decision I have made for him. Below are a few modifications we made to our home to make it easier for my son to thrive.
I think the key ingredient here is to give your child what they need. My son needs space in order to avoid being over-stimulated. He needs a spot to recover from meltdowns, and a place to rest. I will happily work in my closet to give him what he needs. Making that sacrifice will in turn bring peace to my home. I am positive we will still have rocky, emotional days, but at least he now has his own safe space.