Whether you're married, divorced, or separated, it doesn't matter: coparenting is never easy when you and your child's mother or father are on different wavelengths. While it's important for children to have relationships with both parents, if possible, sometimes one parent's spoiling tendencies can contradict the values that you're working so hard to instill in your tot. If your ex is continuously disregarding your requests to cut down on the extravagant gestures and isn't respecting your opinions, there are a number of things you can do before the over-the-top gifts have a lasting, negative impact on your child's behavior. Check out these tips on how to deal with the frustrating situation of an ex who spoils — without losing your cool.