30 Traits of a Healthy Relationship

He or she never makes you question your self-worth. Instead, they're the one who can lift your spirits and makes you feel loved in difficult times.

You love every part of your SO, including their shortcomings. You don't put him or her down for them and accept them as they are.

Neither of you feels restricted whatsoever and you love each other even in your silliest and most embarrassing moments.

No matter how much you differ in these areas, you can always see through the other's perspective. There's no wrong or right way in your relationship because you both value where you're coming from.

Both of you are responsible for your own happiness and don't rely on the other to feel complete.

Neither of you are selfish when it comes to your future. You're considerate of their feelings and appreciate their input.

Whether it's in the form of flowers, kisses, or a verbal "thank you," you acknowledge that their efforts aren't going unnoticed and reciprocate the favors, not because you feel obligated to, but because you want to.

Despite any differences you may have, you treat each other's families with the utmost respect because they're a part of who your partner is.

Both of you are physically and emotionally satisfied in the relationship and understand the value of keeping the spark alive.

You don't even let little white lies slip because you feel comfortable being completely transparent with one another. You never have to question whether one of you is telling the truth.

You enjoy each other's company even when you're doing nothing together and every day feels like a date.

You express your feelings and needs with honesty and listen to what each other has to say. You're not afraid to bubble up an issue, and the two of you can constructively work things out.

It's that simple.

You can speak to one another on a deeper level. If the physical attraction were to wear off completely, there would be enough substance in your relationship to last.

A single person doesn't wear the pants in the relationship and dictate what's good or bad for the both of you. You see each other as equals and share the responsibilities.

Infidelity is never a concern because you're confident in your relationship. Your partner can also depend on you and vice versa to come through when most needed.

You don't insist after they say "no" and you don't push their buttons just for the sake of it. You accept it and move on or find better ways to reach the same page.

No matter how frustrated or annoyed you may be inside, you don't want to make it worse by lashing out at your partner. Instead, you talk it out with them or brush it off if you know it's not worth getting upset about.

You make your relationship a priority and you're both willing to do what it takes to make it work. You don't give up easily because you want to make it last.

Each partner should be secure with themselves and in the relationship. If one of you is constantly worried about others, there may be some underlying issues that need to be addressed.

There are things you can tell him or her that you couldn't share with anyone else, and you trust that your SO will be sensitive and understanding.

Neither of you are left doubtful about whether or not you're thinking of them. You show each other through affection, sweet gestures, and I love yous.

Physical, emotional, or verbal abuse is not tolerated, nor would either of you even treat the other that way. Even when you're fighting, there isn't a moment that you're fearful or threatened.

You cheer each other on for even the small things and encourage one another to pursue your passions. You don't make them feel guilty or resent them for going after their goals.

You push one another to pursue whatever endeavors and want your SO to meet their highest potential. You support their hobbies, friends, job, and interests to help them flourish.

The two of you feel comfortable enough to say whatever you're thinking without the fear of judgment. You can express yourself and know that your partner will be receptive.

It's never one-sided and the both of you recognize the importance of pitching in. You don't settle for a mediocre partnership and go above and beyond to continuously improve.

Fighting is inevitable, but it should never get aggressive or hostile. You come out understanding each other's differences and move on from there.

You encourage each other to maintain separate social lives and don't make one another feel guilty for not including you in plans. You feel as though you have your own identity.

You're both confident in how much you love each other and you try your best to make your feelings known through actions more than words.