Although he says he loves you, it is easy to wonder how you can be so sure that he truly means it. Thankfully, Dear Wendy [1] has complied a list of 15 signs that reveal if he really loves you.
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Over on the Huffington Post, there's an article called "Does He Love You? How to Tell" [2] that suggests actions speak louder than words, which, hopefully, will come as a surprise to exactly no one. Unfortunately, the article doesn't provide too many examples of tell-able actions to look for, but luckily, you all have me. After the jump, I've got 15 signs he loves you — he really, really loves you.
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- Instead of texting, he actually calls.
- He uses the pronoun "we" with regularity.
- He takes allergy medication so he can hang with your cat.
- He let's you watch Real Housewives even when his team's playing.
- He knows your favorite flower.
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- He knows you secretly like Justin Bieber and he hasn't told a soul.
- He lets you have the aisle seat.
- He likes looking at your baby pictures.
- He remembers the dates of important occasions, like your birthday, the day you met, and when the newest season of Mad Men [5] starts.
- He puts up with your most annoying friends without complaining (too much).
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- He puts up with your crazy family without complaining (too much).
- He talks about his feelings with you.
- He introduces you to his mom and she already knows a lot about you.
- He remembers stuff you said way back when you first started dating.
- He says so (even when he doesn't want something from you).