- Use shades in the the same family, but of different depths. Selena's eye shadow illustrates this one perfectly. It's a pretty lilac that's a lightened, whitened version of her jewel-toned dress.
- Don't ignore your lips. Take a close look at Selena's lip gloss. See how it has a subtle violet tinge? Using a color with a hint of your clothing shade in it pulls the entire look together without being overtly matching. Using a lightly colored gloss is the easiest way to do this.
- Transparency is key. To coordinate without pulling undue attention to it, the easiest solution is to use sheer products. A lighter, shimmery eye shadow and a lip gloss or creamy lipstick instead of a matte look make similar hues easier to pull off.