This 5-Year-Old Girl Picked Heaven Over the Hospital, and Her Parents Are Respecting Those Wishes

Much of Julianna Snow's short life has been spent suffering through treatments at the hospital. And even though she's just 5 years old, she knows that's not how she wants to spend another minute.

Although Julianna is stable at the moment, doctors agree that she is dying of Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease, an incurable neurodegenerative illness where even the common cold can be deadly. Not only has Julianna's rare form of CMT weakened her arms and legs, but it has also attacked the muscles that control her breathing.

Julianna's mother, Michelle Moon, is a neurologist and was instrumental in finding her daughter's diagnosis. Trusting her medical training and mother's intuition, Michelle dug for answers when Julianna wasn't able to sit up by 9 months and other doctors thought that she was just a late walker and didn't see it as a worrisome developmental delay.

But after the devastating CMT diagnosis, Julianna has only gotten worse, and Michelle is trusting her gut on this one too: her daughter is suffering and knows what she wants. Michelle describes the conversation she had with Julianna in a post from their blog that chronicles the family's journey. When she asked what her daughter would like to happen if she were to get sick again, her daughter picked heaven without her family over having to return to the hospital.


Michelle: Julianna, if you get sick again, do you want to go to the hospital again or stay home?

Julianna: Not the hospital.

Michelle: Even if that means that you will go to heaven if you stay home?

Julianna: Yes.

Michelle: And you know that mommy and daddy won't come with you right away? You'll go by yourself first.

Julianna: Don't worry. God will take care of me.

Michelle: And if you go to the hospital, it may help you get better and let you come home again and spend more time with us. I need to make sure that you understand that. Hospital may let you have more time with mommy and daddy.

Julianna: I understand.

Michelle: (crying) - I'm sorry, Julianna. I know you don't like it when I cry. It's just that I will miss you so much.

Julianna: That's OK. God will take care of me. He's in my heart.

Even though Julianna is very specific with her plan, it's certainly not a simple request that is easy to obey. Should a 5-year-old even have the right to make that kind of decision? But on the other hand, how could her heartbroken parents ignore their daughter's dying wish?