My, How Things Have Changed! A Look at Childhood Then and Now

One of the perks of working for a parenting site is being able to pull from your own experiences, both as a mother and as a former kid. Of course, this forces you to realize just how much has changed since your childhood. As a latchkey kid who thrived on fresh air and family dinners, I look at today's generation of tech-savvy tots and wonder when — and, more importantly, how — this transformation occurred. From the attitude to the attire, take a look at some of the main differences between today's children and those of decades past. Source: Flickr user The Lotus Carroll

Talking to Adults Then

We used the appropriate titles and always treated them with respect.

Talking to Adults Now

Kids aren't afraid to give a little attitude (and even a few four-letter words).

Playtime Then

Toys and creativity were our go-to method.

Playtime Now

Technology is essential for a good time.

Riding in Cars Then

We rode in the beds of pickup trucks.

Riding in Cars Now

Kids can't ride without a car seat.

Talking to Friends Then

We communicated in person or over the phone.

Talking to Friends Now

Kids communicate through texts and the occasional Snapchat.

Reading Books Then

A page-turning pastime.

Reading Books Now

A "swipe left" pastime.

Playgrounds Then

Wooden attractions were all the rage.

Playgrounds Now

Splinter-free structures are the way to go.

Punishment Then

We received our fair share of spankings.

Punishment Now

Parents talk to their kids or put them in time-out.

Saturday Mornings Then

We were out of the house as soon as breakfast was done — whether we liked it or not.

Saturday Morning Now

Kids sit in front of the TV, even during breakfast.

Being Left Alone Then

Being left home while your parents went to the store was no big deal.

Being Left Alone Now

Being left home while your parents go to the store is considered neglect.

Free Time Then

We let our imaginations run wild.

Free Time Now

Kids let the iPod take control.

Computer Games Then

Simplicity at its finest.

Computer Games Now

Complexity reigns supreme.

Toy Guns Then

They weren't terribly realistic, but we could play with them.

Toy Guns Now

They are too realistic and banned by many parents (finger guns included).

Halloween Then

We were happy with our simple homemade costumes.

Halloween Now

Kids (or, more accurately, parents) prefer an Etsy-worthy creation.

Birthday Parties Then

All you needed for a successful bash were pizzas, paper plates, and Pin the Tail on the Donkey.

Birthday Parties Now

If it doesn't look like it came from Pinterest, then it's a flop.

Math Homework Then

Word problems were (somewhat) simple to solve.

Math Homework Now

Common Core. Need I say more? Photo: Rebecca Gruber

Dressing Up Then

We covered ourselves quite nicely.

Dressing Up Now

The skirts are too short, the jeans are too tight, and there is way too much skin.

After School Then

We rushed home from school so we could run around the yard.

After School Now

Kids rush home from their extracurricular activities to finish all their homework.

Tracking Kids Then

Our parents yelled our name from the doorway or called our friends' parents.

Tracking Kids Now

Parents have an app for that.

Playing Outside Then

We ran around till sunset without adult supervision.

Playing Outside Now

Kids are constantly chaperoned, even if they are across the street.

Takeout Dinners Then

A special treat on Friday nights.

Takeout Dinners Now

The only way kids eat during the week.

Bath-Time Photos Then

A sweet moment captured on film.

Bath-Time Photos Now

A surefire way to be called a pedophile on the Internet.

Growing Up Then

We were in no hurry to grow up.

Growing Up Now

Kids can't wait to be adults.

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