How I Found "The One"

POPSUGAR Photography | Joel Barhamand
POPSUGAR Photography | Joel Barhamand

If countless movies, self-help books, and articles are to be believed, finding The One is nothing short of a miracle. Sure, I've had a few failed romances, but once I put my best self forward with confidence, finding my match was shockingly easy. Your partner should truly complement you, and always make you feel your best — radiant, inside and out.

I feel the same way about obtaining my ideal Summer glow. I love to hone in on one beauty product that makes me instantly look and feel put-together and beautiful. My go-to? A highlighting stick that does it all. It comes in two flattering shades, is perfect for every occasion, accentuates all my best features, and allows me to present myself in the best light throughout every exciting stage of my relationship.

In our complicated, hectic lives, we're all trying to streamline and #KonMari to get to the heart of what brings us joy. So I'm sharing some makeup and relationship tips so you, too, can find The One, and make the journey from dating to forever that much easier.

Win them over on the first date

Win them over on the first date

The beauty tip: Since first impressions leave no room for error, I like to use makeup to my advantage to guarantee eye contact and create a look that's flattering yet simple. For a targeted, easy application, use a lightweight highlighting stick in either pink or gold that blends seamlessly into your skin. Try strategically wearing highlighter in the inner corners of your eyes and under your brows for an instant connection.

The love tip: On your first outing, it’s important to stay authentic while presenting yourself in the best possible light. To me, this means sharing some quirky, memorable details about yourself while keeping the conversation light and fun.

Feel confident when meeting their friends

Feel confident when meeting their friends

The beauty tip: Since meet-ups are often spontaneous, I like to keep one pocket-size product on hand for a touch-up for when you inevitably bump into their crew. A highlighted cheekbone brings your confidence to the surface with a radiant glow inside and out, so no need to feel nervous. Stash a highlighting stick in your purse that sculpts and shapes for a professionally retouched look. Duck into the restroom and play up your cheekbones with a quick swipe of the stick — it's the perfect finishing touch you'll want in a pinch.

The love tip: Getting the approval of their friends is a test you definitely need to pass. While you want to come across as gorgeous and self-assured, it's also important to be friendly and genuine. Ask questions and listen to their responses so you can follow up later.

Get ready for The Talk

Get ready for The Talk

The beauty tip: It’s time to make it official and have The Talk. For this ultraromantic moment, you'll want to prep your lips to seal the deal with a kiss. Illuminate and enhance your cupid's bow with light-filtering technology. Depending on your desired effect, you can try two different shades to achieve a bright sheen or a golden finish. Either look is totally kissable.=http:>

The love tip: Once you feel confident that you're on the same page, don't be afraid to initiate a more formal conversation about defining your status. (If you're a bit of a wimp like I am, wait another week or two so you feel really ready.) It can feel nerve-wracking — are we or aren't we? But after weeks of bliss and a fancy night out on the calendar, as the Magic 8 Ball says, signs point to yes. Share your feelings, be direct, and remember to be open-minded!

Get glowing for your romantic getaway

Get glowing for your romantic getaway

The beauty tip: For your first romantic Summer getaway, you'll want a portable product that plays up your sultry side. This time, try adding highlighter to your collarbone. Yup, the glistening formula looks gorgeous on your body, too. Keep a multitasking highlighting stick in your purse and apply it along your clavicle. Paired with a trendy off-the-shoulder top or dress, this is a subtly sexy look you can create using just your fingers. Even better, it takes mere seconds to apply, so you have more time to enjoy your unforgettable journey together.

The love tip: You've become one of those couples that holds hands, leaves each other cute notes, and always sees each other in the best light. But there's nothing like that first trip together to bring your relationship to the next level. I'll never forget the first time I went to Miami with my guy and the way I felt when we returned — I knew he was the one, and that feeling has never left.

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