Terminally Ill Kids Shared Their Versions of the "Meaning of Life," and They Will Wreck You

When children's doctor Alastair McAlpine asked some of his terminally ill patients "what they enjoy and what has given meaning to their lives," he might not have been prepared for just how heartwarming the responses were. Sharing the kids' responses in a series of tweets, the pediatrician found that the children mostly cared about friends, family, pets, and small joys like ice cream, and much less about material things like television. See the overarching themes and touching responses below.

Social media and TV did not come to mind

First:
NONE said they wished they'd watched more TV
NONE said they should've spent more time on Face Book
NONE said they enjoyed fighting with others
NONE enjoyed hospital
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— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

The love for their pets was a top theme

MANY mentioned their pets:
'I love Rufus, his funny bark makes me laugh.'
'I love when Ginny snuggles up to me at night and purrs'
'I was happiest riding Jake on the beach.'
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— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

The kids don't want their parents to worry

MANY mentioned their parents, often expressing worry or concern:
'Hope mum will be ok. She seems sad.'
'Dad mustn't worry. He'll see me again soon.'
'God will take care of my mum and dad when I'm gone'
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— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

All of them LOVE ice cream

ALL of them loved ice-cream.
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— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Books like Harry Potter have a special place in their heart

ALL of them loved books or being told stories, especially by their parents:
'Harry Potter made me feel brave.'
'I love stories in space!'
'I want to be a great detective like Sherlock Holmes when I'm better!'

Folks, read to your kids! They love it. /5

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Real friends matter the most

MANY wished they had spent less time worrying about what others thought of them, and valued people who just treated them 'normally'.
'My real friends didn't care when my hair fell out.'
'Jane came to visit after the surgery and didn't even notice the scar!' /6

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Kids love the beach!

Many of them loved swimming, and the beach.
'I made big sandcastles!'
'Being in the sea with the waves was so exciting! My eyes didn't even hurt!' /7

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Kindness does not go unnoticed

Almost ALL of them valued kindness above most other virtues:
'My granny is so kind to me. She always makes me smile.'
'Jonny gave me half his sandwich when I didn't eat mine. That was nice.'
'I like it when that kind nurse is here. She's gentle. And it hurts less' /8

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Laughter can be the best medicine

Almost ALL of them loved people who made them laugh:
'That magician is so silly! His pants fell down and I couldn't stop laughing!'
'My daddy pulls funny faces which I just love!'
'The boy in the next bed farted! Hahaha!'

Laughter relieves pain. /9

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Toys and superheroes are comforting

Kids love their toys, and their superheroes.
'My Princess Sophia doll is my favourite!'
'I love Batman!' (All the boys love Batman)
'I like cuddling my teddy' /10

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Above all, family means the most

Finally, they ALL valued time with their family. Nothing was more important.
'Mum and dad are the best!'
'My sister always hugs me tight'
'No one loves me like mummy loves me!' /11

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018

Don't forget to appreciate the little things

Take home message:
Be kind. Read more books. Spend time with your family. Crack jokes. Go to the beach. Hug your dog. Tell that special person you love them.

These are the things these kids wished they could've done more. The rest is details.

Oh... and eat ice-cream. /End

— Alastair McAlpine (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018