A Felt Christmas Tree Is the Best Way to Keep Your Kiddo From F*cking Up the Real One
I love when my home is decorated for the holidays, or at least I did until my first-born daughter was old enough to toddle around the living room landmine of breakable ornaments and yankable stockings. I started to feel anxious every time she'd play independently that her curious hands would wind up breaking something.
Then, during one Christmas gathering a few years ago, I noticed that all the kiddos were busying themselves with something other than the giant eight-foot tree in the center of the room. When I investigated, I discovered the single smartest holiday decoration for young families. It was a simple felt tree tacked up on the low-end of the wall, with a pile of multicolored felt circles, stars, and diamonds surrounding it.
The kids — a mix of tots from 18 months old to preschool-aged — were all clamoring around it. As felt sticks to felt, the kids were able to affix the felt "ornaments" to the tree wherever they wanted with a simple pat, and then they could move them around or shake them off to start over. The simple open-ended toy captivated my daughter's attention — she was obsessed, and thus, so was I.
It seemed easy enough to replicate, and sure enough, it took one trip to the craft store and less than $10 worth of felt sheets to accumulate the supplies needed to make my own. I cut one large green triangle and then used some basic shape stencils I had lying around to cut out a tree trunk, a star topper, and a bunch of different ornaments. It took 30 minutes to make!
The simple open-ended toy captivated my daughter's attention — she was obsessed, and thus, so was I.
We now hang our felt tree up (with a little sticky tack) just a few feet away from our real one, and let me be clear: it's the ultimate distraction to keep my little ones from attacking the real tree. If ever they are getting too handsy with a low-hanging ornament, I'll ask if they can help me decorate their tree. Now that my oldest daughter is approaching 5 years old, I've had to up my game by making a few additional ornaments in different shapes and colors so that I can challenge her with age-appropriate tasks. I'll task her with putting up only red diamonds or to make a certain pattern.
If you love this idea but don't want to make it yourself (though I can't express to you how cheap and easy it is), I just discovered a similar toddler-friendly version of the felt tree that you can buy online.
The Kids DIY Felt Christmas Tree ($25, originally $50) is made of thicker felt and is certainly more ornate than what I created. Plus, it comes with 25 whimsical ornaments — three-dimensional candies, intricately cut snowflakes, and elaborate snowmen — that I don't have the patience to compile. The for-sale one does include velcro backings for some reason (in my opinion, the whole joy of a felt tree is that you don't need to worry about adhesives), but if that appeals to you, it adds a sturdiness you won't get in a true do-it-yourself version.
Whether you go homemade or store-bought, I can promise that this tree will be a seasonal activity that your kids will enjoy, and that will buy you some time to relax.
Before you decide, take another peek at mine and then a closer look at the one you can buy.