Ladies, Here's Why You Should Dominate During Sex

There are many assertive females who feel comfortable taking the lead in the bedroom and in their relationships, but just as there are assertive women, there are also a lot of women afraid of or resistant to taking the lead during sex. It may be because personality-wise, they're more timid or perhaps have old-fashioned views that dictate the man should be the head ball player in the game of sex and love. A woman might also hesitate to make her partner submit if she's self-conscious, insecure, or nervous.

For those of you who fall into the latter category, I'm speaking to you! If a woman has a timid personality or has a more traditional sense of sex roles, she'll most likely never jump at the chance to lead in the bedroom, but for those of you who simply haven't found your groove as the main woman: let me convince you that taking charge in the bedroom is a most worthy feat!

When you are the person calling and directing the shots sexually, this means you also orchestrate the moves. Isn't that lovely? Instead of perhaps doing what your partner wants each and every time, if you're in charge, you get to show them what you both need and want sexually. It gives you the chance to eliminate some of their "moves" or ideas that you don't really love with the opportunity to replace it with sexual activities and positions that you love. Which means . . .

Of course, if you're a submissive, this whole article gets thrown out of question, but if you're the head b*tch in the bedroom and choosing the play-by-plays, you'll enjoy the experience more. Doesn't it feel good to be the boss? Oh yes, indeedy! It does.

When you decide to be in charge, you get to teach and guide your SO to what you want and how you want it. This gives them the chance to eliminate guesswork for the next go-round, which is a life and relationship saver for the two of you.

No one — man or woman — wants to be the leader of all the sexual activities, 100 percent of the time, unless he or she happens to be a dominant type. Your partner will drink up your sexual bossiness and dominating ways for the evening simply because it's sexy when someone shows us: Hey, I want you!

When you take charge, it gives you a boost! This is the single most important reason to take charge in the bedroom. You may feel nervous at first, but after a few rounds, it will make you feel sexy and empowered. You are taking your sex life into your own hands like men have been encouraged to do for centuries.

The bottom line: you are beautiful, amazing, and powerful. Why shouldn't you get to call the shots in the bedroom? Why wouldn't you be capable of being the head b*tch? Think about it. You deserve to show whoever shares your bed what and how you want.

Happy dominating, ladies!