13 Tips For Getting Back in the Exercise Game After Baby

Getting back in shape after having a baby is no small feat, and as the mom of a 3-month-old, I can certainly attest to that! It's recommended that women gain between 25 to 35 pounds during pregnancy, and while it's hard to imagine how your body will ever look and feel the same, it's also amazing how quickly our bodies can heal. That being said, losing weight is usually not the highest priority after giving birth, as you adjust to life with a helpless, around-the-clock feeding machine that relies on you for everything. Getting through the day may feel like a workout in itself!

When you do start thinking about shedding some of that baby weight, there are some things you can do to make the transition a little easier on your body and mind. If you were active during pregnancy and maintained some type of exercise routine, way to go! You're one step ahead already. But if you weren't able to exercise during pregnancy, don't worry, we've got some great tips to help you get back in shape and feeling great. Regardless of your experience level, check with your doctor before jumping back into any fitness routine.

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Listen to and Respect Your Body
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Listen to and Respect Your Body

No matter what kind of birth you had, your body has just gone through a huge, epic, and beautiful feat of endurance and strength. Go, girl! Expecting to jump back into a marathon routine or SoulCycle bike seat (ouch) is probably not in the best interest of healing. Take it slow, keeping tabs on how your body reacts to small amounts of movement, and then increase slowly if you're feeling up to it. And most importantly, don't beat yourself up over what you can and can't do!

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Got Rectus Abdominis Diastasis?
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Got Rectus Abdominis Diastasis?

This condition is often overlooked by new moms but is important to diagnose before beginning to exercise again. Medically speaking, diastasis recti occurs when the uterus expands and stretches the abdominal muscles. This causes muscles in the abdomen to separate, which makes it hard to lose that postbaby bulge. You can self-diagnose RAD by lying down on your back, lifting your head up, and placing three fingers just above your belly button; if the three fingers fill the gap, then you may have the condition and will benefit from specific exercises, but it's still best to speak to a professional to be sure.

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Get Your Diet Back on Track
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Get Your Diet Back on Track

Eating well and staying very hydrated postpartum are keys to feeling great, healing, and getting you moving faster. If you're breastfeeding, that requires extra calorie intake, but the quality of calories matters. Surround yourself with healthy snacks, proteins, and fats, like nuts and nut butter. Keep the fridge stocked with fresh fruit and vegetables, lean meats, sweet potatoes, and grains like oats, brown rice, and quinoa. If you're a fan of takeout, try a healthier option like a meal or grocery delivery service.

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Ease Back in With Walking
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Ease Back in With Walking

Toward the end of pregnancy, you may find that walking is really the only exercise you can manage. Walking is an excellent, low-impact activity that doesn't overtax the body. Walking also provides an opportunity to get outside and get fresh air, as you may start to feel cooped up in your house after a few days.

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Don't Focus on Calorie Burn
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Don't Focus on Calorie Burn

This is especially true in your first few months postpartum. The goal should be easing the body back in, and speaking from experience, if you push too hard, you may experience a setback in healing, which is no fun at all! Do small amounts of exercise that you enjoy, and save the treadmill workouts and CrossFit for later.

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Equip Yourself at Home
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Equip Yourself at Home

Getting to a gym or a workout class in the first few months of your baby's life is a huge challenge with feeding and sleep schedules, so keep it easy and work out at home! All you need are a light set of weights and a yoga mat that you can utilize any time of day. Doing so will optimize your chances of working out. Yoga websites and YouTube videos allow you to find the perfect length and intensity for you.

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Don't Hit Snooze in the A.M.
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Don't Hit Snooze in the A.M.

Babies are notoriously sleepy in the a.m. (after being awake all night), so this is generally the best time to squeeze in a workout. In the first weeks, it may take three times as long to get through a 30-minute workout, but that's OK! Don't stress, and do your best.

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Add Weights
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Add Weights

Adding light weights into your workouts is a great way to burn extra calories without overtaxing the body like high-impact workouts do. Many online videos incorporate weights, so if you're new to strength training, you can learn safely from a pro from the comfort of your home.

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Get Motivated
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Get Motivated

Use social media to find moms who you can look up to, but avoid the comparison game and remember most of what we see on social media isn't reality. Look for moms with positive, body-friendly messages that keep you excited to get your workout on!

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Work Out With Baby
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Work Out With Baby

If you're looking for an at-home workout and your baby isn't content watching you sweat, let them join the party by doing a workout video that incorporates them. It may sound silly, but you'll be feeling the burn with the added weight, and your baby will get a new perspective and a fun ride! Or, strap them to your back and get outside.

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Breastfeed
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Breastfeed

If you choose to breastfeed, it can burn between 400 and 700 calories per day as the body is working so hard to produce milk around the clock. Further, breastfeeding utilizes the fat stores that have built up during pregnancy, helping moms return to their prebaby bodies more quickly. But when it comes to feeding your baby, you know best what method works for you.

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Join a Baby-Friendly Gym
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Join a Baby-Friendly Gym

Child care is available on site at many gyms, so take your little one and know they're in good hands. Many yoga studios also have mom and baby yoga, which is the cutest hour you'll spend all week. A baby holder will be on hand to scan the room for little ones who can't get down with Down Dog and need a cuddle instead.

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Find a Mom Squad
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Find a Mom Squad

Working out with other newly postpartum moms is so incredibly powerful and helpful to recovery. Hold each other accountable, and set a time to meet each week for a long walk and chat about how things are going. You'll get great exercise and learn from the experiences of the group.