30 Fun Ways to Spice Up Your Relationship in the New Year

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If that cup of coffee you're drinking is hotter than your sex life, it's time to reignite the flame. Although keeping a relationship fun and fresh isn't always the easiest walk in the park, getting it on regularly and taking time to bond and get to know each other even better can work wonders on your body and mind — not to mention strengthen your relationship.

So if you're ready to spice up things, ahead are 30 fun, effective ways to do so. And don't worry; whether it be romantic, raunchy, or something in between that you're yearning for, we've got you covered!

01

Greet the morning with homemade breakfast in bed.

02

Hit the road to explore somewhere new.

03

Take a walk down memory lane by going through old keepsakes.

04

Spend a day naked together.

05

Focus on sensuality instead of just the big O.

06

Set aside time to digitally unplug and reconnect.

07

Skip the snoozes to cuddle and watch the sunrise.

08

Give each other spontaneous massages.

09

Exchange a list of each other's quirks you love most.

10

Surprise one another with small, unexpected gifts.

11

Create a new tradition.

12

Share a sweet treat (or two!).

13

Secretly scatter Post-it notes around for each other to find.

14

Lounge around in lingerie.

15

Get creative by enrolling in a class together.

16

Strap on your most beloved heels and go on a date night.

17

Unwind together with wine and a hot bubble bath.

18

Bring playful props into the bedroom.

19

Show your love in the kitchen by cooking together.

20

Stay up late chatting and dreaming about the future.

21

Save water and start showering together.

22

Have steamy sex in a new place.

23

Play a game of 20 questions.

24

Indulge in a little PDA . . . or a lot — no judgment.

25

Snuggle under the sheets listening to your favorite tunes.

26

Find fun ways to flirt and tease with one another.

27

Switch things up by testing out new positions.

28

Take each other's hand and dance like no one's watching.

29

Write an old-fashioned love letter to one another.

30

Simply say "I love you."

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