40 Age-Appropriate Chores Your Kids Won't Hate Doing
If you're a parent who feels like they're doing literally everything around the house, including picking up after your very capable kids, we know how you feel. It makes some parents feel guilty to give their children mundane responsibilities like taking out the garbage, and some can't help but think, "If I do it, it'll get done faster and better." But the truth is, our children can — and probably should — handle more than we think.
Chores can actually be very beneficial for child development, according to The American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry. From learning time management and organizational skills to accepting family responsibility, age-appropriate chores set a foundation for independence. It's also a good way to introduce routine and consistency if life at home has been a little hectic.
We're not suggesting you turn your child into a regular Mrs. Doubtfire, but there are a bunch of tasks around the house that can be completed by children based on their age, like putting their toys away or helping set the table. If you're looking to set your kiddos up with a chore chart to help them learn about hard work and having responsibilities, there's something every child can help with.
Scroll through for a list of manageable household chores for kids based on their age.
Chores For Kids Ages 2-3
At this age, chores are a kind of code for being held accountable in the smallest way. While your kiddo is young, it's important to not do every little thing for them so that getting them to help out when they're older isn't a losing battle. Here are some things they can do on their own to help you or their older siblings.
- Put laundry in the hamper/washer.
- Put their toys away.
- Put books on the bookshelf.
- Help feed the family pet.
- Throw diapers into trash.
Chores For Kids Ages 4-7
As your child gets a bit older, their ability to do a few small chores independently increases, especially if they were helping out with little things before their fourth birthday. As they make their way through preschool and into grade school, here are a few things they can manage:
- Help set the table.
- Make their bed.
- Water plants/the garden.
- Help put away groceries.
- Put nonbreakable (and not sharp) items in the dishwasher.
- Switch laundry from the washer to dryer.
- Help clear the dinner table.
- Pack up their backpack for school.
- Sort silverware.
- Sweep floors.
Chores For Kids Ages 8-10
Once they reach the higher grades of elementary school, their chore list will start snowballing from the previous age lists. Things they helped with before can likely be done by them independently now, and responsibilities can extend from things that affect just them to things that help the entire family (like setting the table for dinner). Here are a few tasks you can realistically ask of your 8 to 10 year old:
Chores For Kids Age 11 and Older
By the time your child hits middle school, they're going to be asking for more and more independence in terms of social life and schoolwork, so they should be able to handle doing larger-scale chores by themselves. All kids develop differently, but as your child ages from 11 and on, they should be able to begin to take on more advanced chores like doing laundry and packing lunches. Here some other chores to consider for kids 11 and above: