Get to Know Your SO on a Deeper Level by Asking Each Other These 30 Questions

By Nicole Yi
Mann & Wife Photography
Mann & Wife Photography

It doesn't matter if you've been with your partner for a couple months or many years, there's always something you can still learn about them. You may think you already know every single detail about their lives, but we promise there's a thing or two you've yet to discover. As a fun exercise, try diving into a deeper set of questions beyond the usual "How was your day?" Share a bottle of wine while you exchange answers and let the conversation flow. You'll be surprised at what you find out and will end up closer to your SO than before. From interesting and fun to deeply personal, the following 30 questions get more difficult as you go. Are you ready to take your relationship to the next level?

  1. If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  2. What's the first thing you would do if you were the last person on Earth?
  3. If your house was on fire, what are three items you would grab?
  4. Which of the five senses could you live without if you had to give up one?
  5. If you were only able to save one celebrity in the world, who would it be?
  6. What age would you want to be stuck in forever?
  7. If you were allowed to sleep with one other celebrity, who would it be?
  8. If you could be anywhere in the world right now, where would it be?
  9. Tell me about your first crush.
  10. How would you describe yourself in three words to a stranger?
  11. What would you change if you could alter one thing about our first date?
  12. What do you cherish most about our relationship?
  13. If you could erase one thing from our relationship, what would it be?
  14. If you had the chance of meeting me all over again, how would you approach me?
  15. Share your favorite thing about each other that you both don't know already.
  16. What are three qualities you admire most about your best friend?
  17. If you could rob a bank without getting caught, would you?
  18. What's your fondest childhood memory?
  19. What's the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you?
  20. If money wasn't an issue, what would be your dream career?
  21. What would you do first if you only had three months left to live?
  22. Would you want to know when you're going to die?
  23. What do you fear most?
  24. What's one positive memory about your parents or family that you'll never forget?
  25. When was the hardest you ever cried?
  26. What's your biggest regret in life?
  27. What are you most proud of?
  28. What's the most shameful thing you've ever done?
  29. Are you happy with your life? If not, what would you change?
  30. Share something that you've always wanted to tell one another.