I rarely (if ever) struggle with indecision, but it took me over a year to figure out what lip product I wanted to wear on my wedding day. What makes this situation even more ironic is the fact that I have worked in the beauty industry for years and have swatched just about every formula you can imagine.
When I first started researching bridal beauty looks, I figured choosing a classic tube of lipstick in "some sort of pink" was the way to go, but narrowing it down to a specific shade was overwhelming. I walked out of my bathroom with an arm covered in swatches of reds, pinks, mauves, and berries and even more confusion. Then, I started thinking (rather, panicking) about the possibility of lipstick — regardless of what color it was — getting on my teeth during the reception or smearing it while eating.
For the record, choosing every other part of my bridal beauty look had been a breeze. I knew from the moment I got engaged that all I wanted for my hair was a fresh blowout and maybe some soft waves; my signature bangs were a given. As for perfume, I wanted a scent I was already familiar with, as not to deal with any surprise headaches on the big day. I feel most comfortable with a more neutral polish painted on my fingernails, so a milky cream was the obvious choice.
When I started reflecting on all these choices, I figured out why my lip look was causing me so much confusion. I hadn't even considered the lip product I wear the most often on special occasions: lip gloss.
I knew I wanted to look like "me" on my wedding day but was totally ignoring the lip genre I typically wear when I'm dressing up. Instead of matte reds and berries, I reach for glossy or balmy products with just a hint of color, like the e.l.f. Cosmetics Lip Plumping Gloss ($6) or the e.l.f. Cosmetics Tinted Lip Oil ($6). These types of products seamlessly complete the natural and minimal makeup I prefer, which is also how I was describing my ideal bridal beauty look to my friends.
I also realized that, for me, reapplying lip gloss is way less intimidating than redoing a matte lip look halfway through my reception.
So forget lipstick. I think I just might wear lip gloss on my wedding day instead.