12 Signs Your Child May Have a Learning Disability

Does your child hate to go to school? Is it a constant battle to get them to do homework? Do they regularly show you that they understand learning concepts, but often come home with poor test scores? Many kids have trouble with routine school-related tasks at some point, but it can be difficult to know when to consider talking to a doctor about the possibility of your child having a learning disability. Although the signs of learning disabilities vary from child to child, there are some common things parents can watch for if they suspect their child is struggling.

"For a kid with an unrecognized learning disability, school can become a nightmare — very much like prison where he or she is forced to contend with a secretly hostile environment which criticizes, degrades, and breaks them down over time," clinical psychologist Dr. Michael J. Bradley, author of Crazy Stressed: Saving Today's Overwhelmed Teens with Love, Laughter, and the Science of Resilience, tells POPSUGAR. Proper diagnosis and treatment is of extreme importance if parents want to help their children avoid the potential long-term impact of unrecognized learning disabilities.

Students who struggle with undiagnosed learning disabilities often go on to experience lifelong effects into adulthood that impact many areas of their life. Plus, students who are struggling with a learning disability that hasn't been diagnosed may be impacted on a psychological level. Dr. Bradley uses the following analogy to describe what it's like for students who struggle with learning disabilities and don't get treatment: "Imagine having a job where everyone but you speaks Greek, leaving you unable to 'get' what is going on when most around you seem to. Picture being forced to report to that job for six hours a day, 10 months a year, with everyone you love and rely upon for support seeming to judge you only by your job performance (report cards). Worst of all, you're seen as being lazy and unmotivated, constantly being reminded that your life will suck if you don't 'try harder.' That is a prescription for depression and anxiety."

For signs that your child may have a learning disability and you should talk to your doctor, keep reading.

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School Resistance or Refusal to Go
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School Resistance or Refusal to Go

Dr. Bradley explains that when students have a difficult time learning, going to school can be miserable. As they watch their peers excel around them, the school setting can be a source of stress and create poor self-esteem. The added pressure from adults to do better and be better only builds school resistance in students who are struggling to stay afloat.

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Difficulty Paying Attention
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Difficulty Paying Attention

Students with learning disabilities such as ADHD may have a hard time focusing or concentrating. Since learning disabilities are neurologically-based processing problems, students may become easily distracted. This may lead to a difficult time focusing enough to learn and study school material.

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Trouble Following Directions
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Trouble Following Directions

Certain learning and attention problems can make it hard for kids to follow directions. While a child may be perceived as ignoring what they're being told, there are a variety of ways children with learning disabilities may display challenges with following directions. Some can't process multi-step directions while others need things written out or they get too distracted to actually "hear" what you're saying.

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Poor Memory
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Poor Memory

Learning disabilities can lead to two types of memory problems. When teachers and parents see gaps in skills or a lack of self-confidence, students may be dealing with memory problems affecting working or long-term memory. Children with memory issues have trouble grasping and holding onto information.

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Issues With Organization
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Issues With Organization

Trouble with everyday life skills such as organization and time management may actually be a sign of a learning disability. Brain-based conditions can lead children to frequently lose track of time, leave tasks unfinished, and misplace things. The most common cause of this is weakness in executive function skills.

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Problems With Comprehension
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Problems With Comprehension

Some students display signs of listening comprehension problems that are masked as hearing issues. Some children can't follow up on what you said while others just can't remember. In their younger years, students may not be able to learn songs or nursery rhymes, and as they get older, they might have issues with spelling, writing, or reading.

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Difficulty Understanding Words or Lessons
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Difficulty Understanding Words or Lessons

Some learning disabilities will cause children to display issues understanding words or grasping concepts. Your child may find it hard to understand language, process written words, or form letters. Other students may show difficulty grasping math concepts or solving simple arithmetic problems.

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Acting Out
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Acting Out

While some students try to go unnoticed, others may act out in school settings or social situations. Children with undiagnosed learning disabilities often become the class clown. They may be defiant or act as though they don't care about school to draw attention away from their deficits.

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Trouble Accepting Changes
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Trouble Accepting Changes

Children with learning disabilities may have a tendency to become extremely distraught by changes in their routine or schedule. Unexpected change or transitions might lead your child to panic. Once a child with a learning disability finds comfort in their current situation, it can be very difficult for them to process any changes that may come along.

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Unexplained Physical Symptoms
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Unexplained Physical Symptoms

Dr. Bradley advises that if your child is frequently sick or comes down with physical symptoms out of nowhere, it may be due to an underlying learning disabilities. Since going to school can be stressful and frustrating, uneasy feelings can lead to physical symptoms. These commonly include stomach pain, nausea, vomiting, head pain, and diarrhea.

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Procrastination or Homework Refusal
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Procrastination or Homework Refusal

When children struggle with learning disabilities, refusal to do homework or other school-related tasks may help them deal with these issues. Procrastination is common among struggling students because it's easier to avoid than to risk failing, Dr. Bradley explains.

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Anxiety and Depression
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Anxiety and Depression

The longer students struggle with undiagnosed learning disabilities, the more likely they are to experience anxiety and depression. As students try to find success among the constant pressure to do better than they can, failing to live up to adult expectations can be very upsetting. Dr. Bradley describes "Monday Syndrome" as "anxiety or depression that appears or worsens with school onset, especially after weekends or breaks."