A few years before my nuptials, I attended a wedding held in a tent with breathtaking water views. The natural environment was so stunning that the couple (who paid for 80 percent of their event) went with simple flower arrangement on the tables. And it was perfect. I wanted this.
Flash forward to that day of wedding venue shopping with my parents. One reason I rejected the funky warehouse option was that it would have taken an enormous amount of money and time to warm it up with decor.
So, as I mentioned, I chose a space with excellent scenery and opted for low centerpieces. I stuck to a tight budget in this category. Even my florist told me to spend the least amount of money on flowers (“They just die,” she said). Still, I got tons of compliments on my French-garden-inspired decor!
“Some venues are much more ambitious to decorate,” Smith explained. “If you rent a warehouse, barn space, or vineyard, then I suggest you hire a bunch of people: a wedding planner, a designer, a florist. You will need to transform the space. Bonus tip: Edison bulbs are big now and create simple and elegant magic.”
Listen, if you have the time and budget to afford this, it can be incredible and personal. I have friends who have been able to do this effortlessly, and it’s magical. Just know what you are signing up for and that you’ll be responsible for bringing in every fork and spoon.
Also, if you’re obsessed with candles (I am!), find out if the venue allows open flames. It is another affordable way to make the space feel romantic. My florist actually rimmed my candles with rose gold stripes to make them appear more enchanted. This is something you could even DIY!
