15 Sexy Date Ideas That Will Have You and Your Partner Feeling Some Type of Way
Whether you're newly seeing someone, dating around, navigating a situationship, or currently in a long-term relationship, going out for a sexy date is never a bad idea. Especially if you want to get away from your normal, day-to-day routine, add a little spice to your relationship, or try something new with your person. Plus, spending quality time with your partner is always a great way to enhance your connection.
But if you feel like you've already attempted every sexy date idea out there or don't have the confidence to do so, don't worry, that's where we come in. To help you come up with some ideas for your next date night, we rounded up 15 kinky date ideas that cater to all couples' needs. Some of these sexy date ideas lean on the milder side, while others are a bit sexier, so you have some variety depending on your comfort level.
Commit to trying one of these ideas this month, or work your way through the entire list this year. With these sexy ideas, trust, you will definitely have love on the brain.
For more dating content and advice, check out our list of the best couples' talking games that will help strengthen your relationship, and, if you're in the mood to flirt, don't forget to try the triangle method technique from TikTok on your next sexy date night, too.
— Additional reporting by Taylor Andrews
Sexy Date Idea: Take a Candlelit Bubble Bath
Fill the tub with bubbles, essential oils, and bath salts, and maybe even throw some rose petals in there. Light some candles, grab a couple glasses of wine, and soak up the romantic atmosphere for the sexiest, kinkiest date idea.
Sexy Date Idea: Play Dirty Games
Strip poker, adult card games, racy truth or dare? The possibilities are endless. The best part is, with these games, no one really "loses" during this sexy date night.
Sexy Date Idea: Body Paint
It's like paint night, except instead of using canvases, use each other's bodies and see where your creative (and sexy) intuitions take you. Trust, this kinky date idea is a great way to get intimate in a really tantalizing way.
Sexy Date Idea: Bake or Decorate Dessert
Bake some dessert, and maybe even do it in the nude. The options for what to make are endless — cookies, brownies, cakes, whatever you and your partner are in the mood for. Not only do you get some quality time with your partner with this sexy date idea, but you also get to eat a delicious something afterward, too. Don't forget to use the frosting however you please.
Sexy Date Idea: Role Play at the Bar
Pretending you're strangers meeting at a bar is super hot — especially if you've been out of the singles game for a while. You can be literally anyone — Zendaya and Tom, Daphne and Simon, J Lo and Ben. The fantasies are endless with this kinky date idea.
Sexy Date Idea: Wear Skimpy Lingerie and Watch Erotic Films
We'll leave it up to you to interpret what "erotic film" means, but if you want some ideas, you could watch anything from ethical porn to a sexy Netflix show to an NC-17 movie — or hey, anything else your heart desires. Enjoy the quality time with your partner, and maybe try to emulate one of the sex scenes with them, too. This sexy date idea will 1000 percent leave you both hot and bothered.
Sexy Date Idea: Give Each Other Sensual Massages
For this sexy date idea, light a candle, grab your best massage oil, and take turns rubbing each other's muscles. (Yes, muscles of ALL kinds are permitted.) Massages are a great way to relax and touch all over each other.
Sexy Date Idea: Read a Risqué Book
Let the seductive words of a narrator paint explicit images in your minds. With this kinky date idea, see how long you can go without making the story come to life in your own bedroom. Trust us, the buildup will be majorly worth it.
Sexy Date Idea: Indulge in Some Major PDA
For this sexy date idea, do a little smooching inside a parked car, on a dark side street, in the back of the subway, or in an empty aisle of the grocery store late at night — there's really no need to be picky. The thrill of getting caught will make you feel like horny high schoolers again. But keep it PG until you're somewhere truly private; there's nothing hot about involving unconsenting bystanders in your intimate time.
Sexy Date Idea: Take a Steamy Shower
A hot shower is a nice and easy way to have a sexy date. All you have to do is grab your partner and hop in the warm water. Play soft, sultry songs in the background, and get clean...or dirty. Bonus points if you have a removable shower head and you know how to use it. (And extra, extra bonus points if it's the shower head specifically designed for masturbating.)
Sexy Date Idea: Go to a Strip Club
Take a note from Gabrielle Union: strip clubs are the way to go. Don your sexiest little number and head to the local strip club for a sexy date night. While you're there, throw all caution to the wind and order a few lap dances — it'll make you and your partner hot for each other by the end of the night. Just be sure to be polite and respectful, and tip the dancers generously.
Sexy Date Idea: Do a Couple's Workout Together
Exercising together as a couple can be a super arousing sexy date idea. Try out any workout you like with your partner, and then be prepared to feel super horny following the endorphins and sweat session you experience.
Sexy Date Idea: Go to a Hotel During Your Lunch Breaks
Choose a work day that won't be cramped with meetings and reports, and book an hour at a nearby hotel for a kinky date idea. The urgency and the secrecy will make the experience feel like a very naughty affair.
Sexy Date Idea: Find a Third
Sexy Date Idea: Host a Sexy Wine-Tasting Night
Choose between going out to a wine-tasting event or hosting your own sexy wine tasting at home for a sexy date idea. Buy bottles of new wine you haven't tried before, and make fun cheese boards in the comfort of your own kitchen. To up the ante, make your private wine event at home nude-friendly.