10 Signs You've Been Beauty-Shamed at the Salon

The same goes for a massage. This should be a guaranteed escape from all of the stressors and insecurities that plague your everyday existence, not an opportunity for your masseuse to body-shame or lash her bad day out on you. We also don't want to know about how bad our backs and carpal tunnel are. Since we can't give up our desk jobs, we probably won't be able to fix the problem any time soon. And no, we can't pay for weekly massages for them to "work out the tension."