All of Jonathan Van Ness's Expert Beauty Advice From Queer Eye Season 3

Rob Elrod is the father of two young sons and became a widower two years ago. Since his wife's passing, he hasn't had time to grieve or take care of himself.

"I want to encourage Rob to quiet down and connect with himself through grooming so his internal strength can help him get through this in a peaceful and happy way," Van Ness explains in his episode. He gives Elrod Rudy's Pomade ($18-$22) to use on his sons and instructs him to lightly dampen his hair with his fingers and then apply a little bit of mousse and a light blow drying to keep his hair from falling in his face.