3 Tips For Capturing Your Kids' Irresistible Smiles (Without Having Them Say Cheese)

Instead of "Say Cheese!" try "What was the funniest thing that happened at school today?" or "What are you most looking forward to this Winter?" By letting them engage naturally you're much more likely to capture the classic expressions that you know and love.

Over time I've discovered that when the timing (and mood!) is right I can quickly capture all of the expressions my girls usually make in a few minutes.

Ask them questions to elicit the expression you’re hoping for. "What would you do if it started snowing right now?" "What's your favorite book?" "What do you want to be when you grow up?" "What's the funniest thing that has ever happened to you?"

My personal favorite line is "Don't you dare smile at me!" The reverse psychology works amazingly well, and I get the best smiles every time.

Be prepared to document the outtakes as well. Often times those might end up being your favorites.

If I'm after a portrait or need some cooperation for a photo I always ask permission first. I've discovered that by asking permission, a feeling of respect is created, and willing participation is more likely to happen.

As with many aspects of parenting, giving a choice usually makes kids happier. In this case, the choice is between two situations that still work for the picture you want to take! "I'd like to take a picture of you. Would you like to take it inside or outside?" Or "I'd like to take a photo of you doing something you love right now. Do you have any ideas?" By letting them feel in charge you're more likely to have them participate happily.

Most importantly, keep that camera accessible! You just never know when those perfectly irresistible smiles might appear.