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When Do Babies Smile?

Is My Baby Smiling, or Does She Just Have Gas?

When Do Babies Smile?
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Six weeks after giving birth, I finally got a smile from my newborn baby girl. For over a month, I lived in an endless cycle of feedings, diaper changes, and power naps. The smile jolted me out of my stupor, and I finally felt like, hey, this parenting thing could be fun.

I'll also admit I felt a sense of relief. This "social smile" (as opposed to a reflexive milk-drunk smile) is an important milestone for newborns. Subconsciously, I had worried that she wouldn't meet the mark. (It was an attitude I resolved to change. Knowing that many more milestones lie on the horizon, I tried to pay less attention to how she progressed, so long as her pediatrician said everything was on track. Easier said than done.)

But it's not so easy to tell the difference between a baby's first true smile and some of the other reflexive movements they make during their first weeks of life. So I asked Robin Jacobson, MD, a pediatrician at NYU Langone Pediatric Associates, everything new parents and soon-to-be parents should know about this beautiful and exciting milestone, including how to discern between a gas smile and a social smile. Dr. Jacobson also filled us in on some other happy moments, like when to expect your baby's first laugh.

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