14 Reasons You're Not Having Sex With Your Spouse (and How to Fix It)

This is pretty common . . . one partner (or both) happens to be angry about something that happened between the two of you, and now that person has essentially cut off the sex. It's passive-aggressive.

Tips:

• Confront your partner. Ask why the sex and intimacy has disappeared. Do so in a nonaggressive manner. Share that you want things to get better and that you would like to know how this can be changed. It may help the person talk and open up.
• If you're the angry one? Cut it out. You're jeopardizing your marriage. Open up the conversation and share why you're mad.