14 Reasons You're Not Having Sex With Your Spouse (and How to Fix It)

One or both of you may have certain sexual preferences or desires that you've held back before and now want to indulge in but are afraid to share.

Tips:

• Examine why you are afraid of sharing. Or if you think your spouse is holding back, why? Is this "preference" a deal breaker?
• Share your sexual preferences, even if it's just starting small.