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14 Reasons You're Not Having Sex With Your Spouse (and How to Fix It)
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An Emotional and/or Physical Affair

Hate to say this, but this is also a reason the sex dies; someone has found a "substitute."

Tips:

  • If you suspect it, talk to your partner and have concrete proof if possible.
  • See a therapist yourself! And suggest marital counseling.
  • Decide what you want to do if your partner is cheating.
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