How do you balance a full-time job and your blog while being married to a surgical resident with an unpredictable schedule?
That's a great question and one I still work on daily. I don't think I've found the perfect balance yet, but I am lucky to have a really supportive husband. He's not only a surgical resident who works 80 hours a week — he's also my photographer! My time with Christian comes first, as I get so little quality time with him. Luckily I love my job and team so much that it actually serves as an inspiration for my own blog. There are times when I come up with ideas for work and they're not a hit — but they might be a hit on CBL and vice versa. It keeps the creative juices flowing.
You moved across the country with your husband after he accepted a surgical residency at the University of California. How has the adjustment been from Mississippi to California? What advice can you give to someone looking to move across the country?
I'm a "prepare for the worst, hope for the best" kind of girl, so I thought the transition could potentially be really difficult. Surprisingly, people in California are really friendly and very welcoming to transplants. They also love the accent! Sure, it's hard to be far away from so many of our friends and family, but we have become more independent both together and apart. I've learned a lot about myself and my relationship since we've moved. I would tell anyone contemplating a big move to go for it. Why not? You can always move back, but some of the best experiences come from putting yourself out there. Get out of your box. Take the challenge.
