8 Real Answers to the Commitment Question

Otherwise known as dodging the question. If they're changing the subject, they don't want to talk about it. They don’t see this going anywhere aside from what it is. Casual sex.

I said this to a girl who was a little too clingy. She'd text me constantly and always wanted to hang out. So I blamed work. 'Cause I was busy with that and the relationship was just adding more stress to my already stressful life.

This means he wants to see other people or isn't fully into it. Unless it's under a month, then this could be true. But after a month if they aren't ready they're a bullsh*t artist.

I appreciated that he wanted to be with me, and wanted him to know it. But I didn't see this progressing further, nor did I feel the same way. So expressing my gratitude felt like enough.

Also known as the fade away. When the question comes up I just don't say anything; I just make myself emotionally and geographically unavailable.

I told a guy this because the sex just wasn’t that great. I can't commit to bad sex.

It had only been a week and a half. So I pretended I was sleeping.

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Of course this isn't the end all be all. Every situation is different. Each relationship is unique with its own set of problems. The bottom line is if you're not happy in a relationship, it's not worth your time. Life is too short and you deserve happiness and feeling loved and appreciated.