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When It Comes to Your Wedding Budget, Here's Where You Should Go BIG

Mindy Weiss Wedding Advice Book

When It Comes to Your Wedding Budget, Here's Where You Should Go BIG

Extra prints.
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Event planner Mindy Weiss has taken the wedding industry by storm with her insider knowledge. Her newest release, The Wedding Book, is filled with advice every newly engaged couple will need for their big day. Mindy gave us some tips on what's worth the splurge for your wedding — check it out!

By the time you invite your parents' friends and hire a band and pay the florist for 20 centerpieces, there's rarely any money left for extras. But should you have the funds, these are the splurges that deliver a lot of bang for your buck.

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1 Extra waitstaff at the meal.

Extra waitstaff at the meal.
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A hotel or caterer will typically provide 1.5 waiters for every three tables. When staffing is light, one side of the room might be finished eating while some tables are still waiting for their main course. Make it two waiters for every three tables and you’ll get much faster service.

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2 Professional lighting.

Professional lighting.
Image Source: Aaron Delesie Photography

Lighting can make a setting come alive by highlighting the standout features in a room and adding dimension. It also casts a flattering glow that makes everyone look great in photos.

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3 Continuous music or an after-hours DJ.

Continuous music or an after-hours DJ.
Image Source: Jay Lawrence Goldman

Most bands will take three to four breaks throughout the evening, during which they’ll typically plug in a playlist. If you can afford the extra fee, they’ll add extra musicians and play seamlessly. Or for those younger guests who want to burn up the dance floor late into the night, hire a DJ.

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4 Guest menus.

Guest menus.
Image Source: Elizabeth Messina Photography

A printed menu really ups the ante and makes a wonderful keepsake for your guests.

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5 Extra prints.

Extra prints.
Image Source: Elizabeth Messina Photography

Have your photographer make extra prints you can send out to select guests with your thank-you notes.

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