Popsugar Love Relationships Things That Ruin a Relationship 10 Signs You Might Be Self-Sabotaging Your Relationship April 29, 2017 by Laura Lifshitz View On One Page Photo 3 of 10 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 3 You run away when you've got problems instead of looking to your partner for help. You make your partner feel shut out and hurt. Previous Next Start Slideshow RelationshipsDatingAdviceRelationship Advice