Popsugar Love Relationships Did I Settle in My Marriage? 10 Signs You Are Settling For a Miserable Marriage December 15, 2017 by Laura Lifshitz View On One Page Photo 9 of 10 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 9 You're happier when he or she is not around. You live for alone time. You envision the future without your spouse but never say this to him or her. You feel single, even though you certainly aren't. Previous Next Start Slideshow RelationshipsMarriageAdvice