11 Thoughts That Could Sabotage Your Relationship

It may seem obvious, but worrying that you'll ruin a relationship will probably cause you to do just that. Once we're convinced of something, whether that's positive or negative, the universe has a way of confirming exactly what we believe. If you truly believe that a relationship will go downhill before you have any real evidence, your actions might cause you to fulfill your own prophecy, which isn't fair to you or your partner.