Here's What to Ask If You're Wondering If You'll Be Compatible or Not

"If one partner wants to get engaged, married, and have kids right away, while the other partner isn't even sure if they want to go for another month, let alone even think about kids, it can cause compatibility issues," says Bennett. While you're not going to pop the question about kids on date one, if you do start to get serious, it's bound to come up, so you don't want to wait too long to gently approach the matter.