My boyfriend and I have have been dating for about 8 months. Nearly 2 months ago I discovered that he was having cyber sex with strangers online (I found his videos)...The last video was dated 3 months into our relationship. There is no record of anything after that and he says he stopped when he bagan to develop real feelings for me. I believe him. It was a tough situation and I nearly left him because I felt his behaviour was secretive, distrustful etc... He begged me to forgive him and give him one more chance. And I have. He is now away (he's from Greece, I am from South Africa-we both live and work in Korea) and I won't see him for 2 weeks. We Skype (video call) every day but I want more. Last night I texted him while we were skyping to say that I'm horny, and feeling naughty and he didn't repond to that. I feel that I want to try cyber sex out with him but it doesn't seem he wants to. It's really frustrating because I know he's/used to be into this sort of thing. And it bugs me to think that maybe he feels he can't engage in such behaviour with me because I'm his girlfriend and because of what we've been through when I discovered the truth. Is our relationship in ruins because of this betrayel?
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