Just months after Shahi and Howey announced their separation, she moved on with her "Sex/Life" costar Demos. In a June 2021 interview with People, Shahi revealed that Demos immediately caught her eye when she first met him on set. "I said, 'Well, that's a tall drink of water.' When I first met Adam, I was really blown away with him," she recalled, adding that the pair clicked due to having so much in common. "We met in the makeup trailer and we just got on instantly. We had the exact same taste in music. We had the same taste in whiskey and tequilas and I was really blown away by him just as a person and all I knew was that I wanted more."
Shahia added: "And then I got an opportunity to act with him, and I will say, sitting across the other side of the camera with him was just a privilege. You're only as good as your scene partner. He's amazing in the show."
While Demos debuted Shahi on his Instagram with a behind-the-scenes photo from their show in September 2020, it wasn't until December 2020 that fans began to speculate the pair were more than just friends. On New Year's Eve, Demos shared an Instagram photo of himself lying in bed with Shahi. "Rats NYE," he captioned the shot, which showed the costars playfully hiding their faces.
In January 2021, Shahi officially confirmed they were together on Instagram by thanking her "love" Demos for making her 41st birthday feel "very special." And after spending Valentine's Day together that year, Shahi dedicated an Instagram post for Demos's 36th birthday that May. "Not exactly sure how two people on opposite sides of the world could have more in common, were meant to meet, were meant to be together," she wrote. "But I do know I met my soulmate. I do know I found my forever. I do know I've never loved deeper, harder, more ferociously. I do know I'm overly grateful for him. I do know I've loved him for a thousand lifetimes before and will love him for a thousand lifetimes more. Happy birthday my baby ❤️."
That December, the couple marked a major milestone together by making their red carpet debut as a couple at the 2021 People's Choice Awards. Four months later, Shahi was spotted wearing a ring on that finger in photos obtained by the Daily Mail, sparking rumors she and Demos got engaged.
During Shahi's appearance on the "Not Skinny but Not Fat" podcast in April 2023, Shahi shot down rumors that she began dating Demos while she was still with Howey. "We met each other and it was not instant," she said. "It was over time, it was getting to know him as a person and seeing like how aligned our values were . . . I also really respected how he talked about his mom and how he talked about women. There was just so much that I started seeing over time that made me go, 'Oh, you're kind of everything I've ever wanted.' And that's when we started being together."
