Will and Jada Pinkett Smith's Relationship Timeline Is Full of Ups and Downs

Will and Jada met on the set of "The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air" in 1994. The "Girls Trip" actor had auditioned to play Will's onscreen girlfriend, Lisa Wilkes. Although she didn't get the part, Jada left a big impression on Will.

During an October 2018 episode of "Red Table Talk," Will recalled meeting Jada for the first time. "It was a really unique, beautiful power," he said of their first conversation. "We had that moment. We connected, but I was married and that was it," he said. At the time, the "Independence Day" star was married to actor and producer Sheree Zampino, who is the mother of his oldest son, Trey Smith.

Jada made it clear that she and Will "did not have an affair while he was married." However, their meeting caused the "Bad Boys" actor to question everything. "I had a realization that I wasn't with the person I was supposed to be with," he said on "Red Table Talk."

In that same "Red Table Talk" episode, Will revealed that he asked Jada out shortly after he and Zampino filed for divorce in 1995. "I called Jada. I said 'Hey Jada, what's up? It's Will,'" he recalled. "She said 'Hey, how you doing?' I said, 'Good, are you seeing anybody?' She said, 'Uh, no,' and I said 'Cool, you're seeing me now.'"

Will and Jada soon began dating, and later that year, they flaunted their new romance by attending the premiere of "Devil in a Blue Dress" as a couple.

After two years of dating, Will spontaneously decided to propose to Jada in November 2017. While talking to People in February 2005, the actor said he randomly popped the question when he and Jada were getting ready to go to sleep. "I looked over at her, and I said, 'Hey, we might be real good married. Wassup? You wanna marry me?'" Will said.

The moment was so "unplanned" that Will didn't have a ring for Jada, but that didn't deter her from accepting his proposal. "She said yes," Will said. "It's really weird when you live the kind of lifestyle that we live: simplicity becomes the jewel."

Just weeks after getting engaged, Will and Jada officially tied the knot on New Year's Eve in 1997. They wed in an intimate ceremony in Baltimore.

Will and Jada welcomed their first child together, son Jaden Smith, on July 8, 1998. Jaden has grown up to follow in his parents' footsteps by becoming an actor and musician. In 2006, he starred in "The Pursuit of Happyness" alongside his father. The role earned Jaden an MTV Movie award for breakthrough performance. Afterward, Jaden went on to star in other films like "The Day the Earth Stood Still," "The Karate Kid," and "After Earth," as well as the Netflix series "The Get Down." Jaden has also made a name for himself as a rapper with three studio albums under his belt.

On Oct. 31, 2000, Will and Jada welcomed their second child together, daughter Willow Smith. Over the years, Willow has dabbled in acting by appearing in the films "I Am Legend" and "Kit Kittredge: An American Girl." Willow has also lent her voice in several animated projects, including "Madagascar: Escape 2 Africa" and "Adventure Time." After launching her music career in 2010 with her debut single "Whip My Hair," Willow went on to release five studio albums. She also cohosted "Red Table Talk" with her mother and grandmother, Adrienne Banfield-Norris, from its premiere in May 2018 to its cancellation in April 2023.

In an April 2013 interview with HuffPost Live, Jada opened up about her and Will's marriage after years of rumors swirled about them being in an open relationship. "I've always told Will, 'You can do whatever you want as long as you can look at yourself in the mirror and be okay," she said. "Because at the end of the day, Will is his own man. I'm here as his partner, but he is his own man. He has to decide who he wants to be and that's not for me to do for him, or vice versa."

Since some fans took Jada's comments as confirmation the couple was in an open marriage, the actor released a lengthy follow-up statement on Facebook (via E! News) clarifying her comments. "Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship...this means we have a GROWN one," her message read.

Ahead of the release of her memoir "Worthy," Jada appeared on "Today" to discuss one of her book's most shocking revelations: she and Will have been separated since 2016. The actor said the pair kept their split a secret for so long because they weren't ready to let the public know. "[We were] still trying to figure out, between the two of us, how to be in partnership," she said. "In regards to, how do we present that to people? We hadn't figured that out."

When she was asked what led to their breakup, Jada said that it was "a lot of things." "By the time we got to 2016, we were just exhausted with trying," she said. "I think we were both kind of just still stuck in our fantasy of what we thought the other person should be."

Although Will and Jada are separated, the actor said the pair haven't legally gotten a divorce since they promised to "work through whatever." After her "Today" comments made headlines, Jada returned to the show to clarify that she and Will are in the process of fixing their marriage. "Here's the thing about husband-wife marriage for me, for my healing process. I came into that with very specific ideas that were blocks to me seeing Will as who he is," she said. "He can't be this perfect, ideal guy husband. I have to be able to accept him for the human that he is, [and] he accepts me for the human that I am. And we want to love each other there."

On her episode of "Let's Talk Off Camera With Kelly Ripa," Jada cleared up a few things about her 2020 "Red Table Talk" sit-down with Will, in which they discussed her "entanglement." According to her, they actually came prepared to reveal their separation then, but she realized Will wasn't ready to make it known to the world yet. "He was like, 'I really don't want you to do this alone.' And I think the misconception was that I asked Will to come to the table," she told host Ripa, per a preview of the Oct. 18 episode shared with POPSUGAR. "That just wasn't the case. You can't force Will to do anything, OK?"

She continued, ". . . I think that once he came to the table, what everyone got to see, which was really interesting, and I didn't even know it in present time of how deeply I recognize it now, but the dynamic between us, I started to see him get uncomfortable. I started to see that he was not ready, and my codependency kicked right in. And I was like, I am going to make sure you are good by any means necessary, even if that means taking on the false narrative that I've been the adulterous wife."

Jada added that she "came to that table prepared to let go of a certain persona of myself and a persona of my relationship." ". . . I'm not gonna backstep on me needing this for myself. I want out of this handmade golden cage that I created for myself. And at the same time, how do I help take care of someone who's actually not ready for that
part of the journey?"

"My codependency was like, well, do what you usually do and just take it all on," she continued. ". . . Just take it on the chin. You do it well . . . So that's what I did."