Popsugar Entertainment Bachelor In Paradise Watch Nicole Confront Clay at the BIP Reunion Watch Clay and Nicole's Conversation That Was Cut From the Bachelor in Paradise Reunion September 23, 2019 by Perri Konecky First Published: September 18, 2019 View On One Page Photo 6 of 16 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow View this post on Instagram First and foremost, congratulations to my amazing friends and TV family who found love in Paradise. ❤️ This is what Paradise is all about. We put our lives on hold for the chance of finding someone who completes us. Yes, this show accelerates every relationship — but we all embark on this wild, vulnerable, and unconventional journey knowing it’s worth it. True love always is. While there is so much I want to share with you all, there is a message that I need to share that is far more important than me. Ladies, we don’t have to put up with anything less than wonderful. We are worthy of someone’s complete and all-encompassing respect, time, love, honesty, and energy. When a man’s actions don’t line up with his words, when a man’s promises fall flat, and when a man dares to string you along (whether it’s for 16 days or for 8 months) knowing very well he does not see a future with you — we are better off on our own than loving a man who doesn’t know what he has when he has it. I know it’s scary, but sometimes, the bravest thing we can ever do is love ourselves first. If that means to run, then run. I went into this experience with my heart wide open. I knew I could be setting myself up for heartache. But if there’s anything this past year on The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise has taught me, it’s that I’m stronger than I give myself credit for. I don’t regret a single moment. I love you all so much ❤️❤️❤️ and remember — we are ALL worthy of our own happy ending. Whether that be with a partner or not. ‘Cause we’re our own soulmates. Xo, Nicole A post shared by Nicole Lopez-Alvar (@nicolelovar) on Sep 17, 2019 at 9:26pm PDT Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 6 Nicole's Response After the Bachelor in Paradise Reunion Previous Next Start Slideshow Bachelor In ParadiseTVReality TVTwitter Reactions