We've all seen how a small joke can start a WWE-style fight between siblings, leaving you to referee the argument. To keep these battles at bay, Rubin says it's important to make your house a tease-free zone. The idea struck her while reading a book on the topic, which she then turned into a short blog post.
"I was amazed by how many people responded about how teasing had almost alienated them from their family," Rubin shares. "I want to create a more tender, loving, and attentive atmosphere, and you aren’t going to have that if someone is making fun of someone else."
While this has been a rule in Rubin's house since her daughters were born, she says it is one parents can easily implement even if teasing has been present. To start, she says parents should set the example, as they are often the ones doing it most.
"Maybe they are trying to make a point in a jovial way, but to me it seems very passive aggressive," Rubin says. She also suggests talking to your kids and telling them why teasing is never OK. This simple change can create a peaceful home, which means a happier mom.
