Popsugar Family Parenting Parents' Secret Thoughts Every Parent Has a Secret — But Only Some Are Willing to Share July 31, 2014 by Lisa Horten View On One Page Photo 7 of 10 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 7 "My wife and I had our third child as a 'spare.'" Previous Next Start Slideshow ParentingFamily RelationshipsFamily Self-Care